Like you with Limits
I’m obviously no stranger to the dating scene. Very well versed actually. I’ve been single for about… well let’s not count. Anyway my core group has noticed some trends in our conversations lately. Our conversations begin “remember when”? Remember when you used to be so excited to see a guy that you just had to…
Wifey Duties
My new favorite podcast is “Nice and Neat”. They had an episode talking about wifey duties. They usually dont miss the mark but I definitely wanted to grab a mic and interrupt quite a few times. The question was should women do wifey duties for a man who isnt her husband. Of course they said…
Let’s go on a Therapy Journey
I’ve been thinking about going back to therapy for a while now. I had many excuses to keep putting it off. I was busy. I was having fun. It can be expensive. Finding a therapist is challenging. The list goes on. There always seemed to be a hurdle. I had one major incident that happened…
Don’t Settle for Safe
There’s a new show on Netflix that has my wheels spinning. The main character Billy finds herself in a safe loving marriage with 2 kids. She starts to reminisce about her wild days in the city as a graduate student when she could stay out all night and still attend class in the morning. Present…
Gloomy but I’m Grateful
Holidays can be extremely difficult for me. Some years, I breeze on through. Other years, whew I can barely make it. This holiday season seems to be “I can barely make it.” As a child, holidays felt fun, free, exciting.. as an adult.. not so much. For Thanksgiving, I was going back and forth trying…
So You Say I’m Just a Friend??
The latest conversation on social media is “should you have friends of the opposite gender while in a relationship?” My initial answer is yes, you should have friends of the opposite gender. I have always been able to have great platonic relationships with men. It has worked in my favor most times. There have been…
Please Don’t Terminate this Pregnancy
My new favorite podcast to watch or listen to is “Know For Sure” with B Simone and her best friend Megan. I get exhausted with the constant relationship talk so this podcast is a good break. In one episode, B Simone and Megan get really deep. They begin to recount how B Simone decided to…
Dont Sink This Ship
Hey Fam! Its been a while. Forgive me. Hope all is well! Lets skip the small talk. Myself and a couple others were having a side bar with our pastor the other day about pre-marital counseling. Of course he dropped some gems that I have to share. He talked about his own experience with pre-marital…
Healthy Friendships ALL 2022
I love the maturity that’s happening in my friendships. Friendships can be just as much work as romantic relationships. What I learned is, sometimes your friends dont need your advice. I try really really hard not to give my unsolicited advice to my friends. You can be an active listener and be supportive without giving…
It Feels Like “Me” Season
I met up with a friend who came into town. I literally haven’t seen him in years. I knew he would come to my city sometimes, but we would never link up. One day we were finally able to get together after years of not hanging out. It was really like we never missed a…
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