Date ‘Em All SIS!!
There’s this saying going around. Date em all sis. I get it. The women just want to level the playing field with the men. I truly understand. To a certain point, I agree, you should date them all. But Im also practical and realistic. My question is, who exactly are you dating? Because I like … Continue reading Date ‘Em All SIS!!
Im Not Gonna Be Able to Do It
I usually list my emergency contact as my sister or my best friend. In my mind it would be my husband by now but we know how that story went. Its not just my story. I love sharing my friends stories. It makes me feel like less of an outlier. It allows you to understand … Continue reading Im Not Gonna Be Able to Do It
Ya Mom Has Some Explaining To Do!
Lets have a round table discussion on who is raising these men shall we? We are #OverIt in 2021. Now before you prejudge and say oh this is about to be about men bashing, its not. Its me sharing our stories collectively. Somehow we are seeing some common themes in these new age men and … Continue reading Ya Mom Has Some Explaining To Do!
Team “Do Too Damn Much”
I seriously do the most. I didn’t learn this about myself until recently. Have you seen that meme that says “I dont like how I act when I like somebody.” That is definitely me. This year I’ve learned a hard lesson of staying true to who I am. This mantra does come with some cons. … Continue reading Team “Do Too Damn Much”
Date and Have Fun They Said
It will be fun they said! I dont know if you have been in this dating scene the last couple of years but its not as fun as you would imagine. This is not only my opinion but the opinion of most of my friends. Maybe dating in our younger years was easier but when … Continue reading Date and Have Fun They Said
Lord, if I’m a Baby Sitter.. just say that!
Most of my friends dont have children. Intentionally. We were beyond focused on education and careers. Well in this dating world, it has become increasingly hard to find a man without children. We all share the same sentiments that we prefer men without children. We are all between the ages of 29-33. I know I … Continue reading Lord, if I’m a Baby Sitter.. just say that!
Breaking Chains
There has been an outpouring of information and support for people healing their past traumas. I absolutely love it! Time and time again, I see post about people working to break generational curses. Just dont post about it. Be about it. Lets get personal. Although people describe me as a private person, if you ask … Continue reading Breaking Chains
Savage For A Season
“And when I turn into a savage boy don’t ask me why” -Queen Naija Ladies have you ever just been in that mood? There were times when I felt like why am I being the good girl to just get dealt a bad hand when it came to men. Sometimes you just feel like Eff … Continue reading Savage For A Season
Girl Get You Some Boundaries!
Hey yall! Its been a while. So Sorry! Holidays, New Year, activities, volunteering, planning, the list goes on. Lets get to it! Story Time!! I say all the time that value my relationships. Even ex romantic relationships. Although a romantic relationship may end badly, somehow we still end up being friends years later. Its a … Continue reading Girl Get You Some Boundaries!
Tools for Your Toolbox
As promised, I am going to give you guys the scoop on some of the activities we did while in couples therapy. Obviously, communication was a big part of our problem. Although we talked often, we weren’t communicating effectively. Man we received soooo many tools. This part of therapy was awesome. These are skills I … Continue reading Tools for Your Toolbox
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