Lord, if I’m a Baby Sitter.. just say that!
Most of my friends dont have children. Intentionally. We were beyond focused on education and careers. Well in this dating world, it has become increasingly hard to find a man without children. We all share the same sentiments that we prefer men without children. We are all between the ages of 29-33. I know I … Continue reading Lord, if I’m a Baby Sitter.. just say that!
Breaking Chains
There has been an outpouring of information and support for people healing their past traumas. I absolutely love it! Time and time again, I see post about people working to break generational curses. Just dont post about it. Be about it. Lets get personal. Although people describe me as a private person, if you ask … Continue reading Breaking Chains
Savage For A Season
“And when I turn into a savage boy don’t ask me why” -Queen Naija Ladies have you ever just been in that mood? There were times when I felt like why am I being the good girl to just get dealt a bad hand when it came to men. Sometimes you just feel like Eff … Continue reading Savage For A Season
Girl Get You Some Boundaries!
Hey yall! Its been a while. So Sorry! Holidays, New Year, activities, volunteering, planning, the list goes on. Lets get to it! Story Time!! I say all the time that value my relationships. Even ex romantic relationships. Although a romantic relationship may end badly, somehow we still end up being friends years later. Its a … Continue reading Girl Get You Some Boundaries!
Tools for Your Toolbox
As promised, I am going to give you guys the scoop on some of the activities we did while in couples therapy. Obviously, communication was a big part of our problem. Although we talked often, we weren’t communicating effectively. Man we received soooo many tools. This part of therapy was awesome. These are skills I … Continue reading Tools for Your Toolbox
Lets Talk Couples Counseling
I came across this video posted by comedian David Arnold on Instagram. He told a story about how he ended up in couples counseling over an argument about oatmeal! I laughed so hard because that is seriously how it happens sometimes. The last straw may seem so petty! I ended up in couples counseling over … Continue reading Lets Talk Couples Counseling
Should I stay or should I go??
I’ve had my share of tough break ups. But as I get older, things arent as black and white as they used to be. When I was younger, I could walk away from a relationship and not even think about looking back. My cut-off game was REAL. Now, things arent that easy. My friends and … Continue reading Should I stay or should I go??
Alexa Play: Brandy “Best Friend:
Lately there has been more recognition and discussion about friendship breakups. I am totally here for it. It’s a discussion that is way overdue. Unfortunately, ya girl has had her fair share of one too many friend break ups. I take my friends seriously. And I mean seriously. In my younger years, I used to … Continue reading Alexa Play: Brandy “Best Friend:
Change My Last Name
I know I will probably step on some toes with this one. Let me first just say that this is not a post to man bash. Just follow me. I know I don’t have children but I am always planning ahead, thinking about the future. I like to have thought provoking conversations often. I had … Continue reading Change My Last Name
No New Friends
When is the last time you accepted a new friend? One afternoon during quarantine, I was having another in-depth conversation with one of my closest girlfriends. See, our conversations can go on for hours at a time. She’s a psychologist by trade, and I, chose the field of social work. Somehow, we started discussing if we … Continue reading No New Friends
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